Flow is the state of being that we operate in when we
are at our peak performance. Athletes refer to this as “the zone.” When we are
in flow we are in the perfect state that operates between anxiety and boredom.
When this perfect spot is met we are then in flow. When we observe someone who
is in flow, what they are doing appears to come to them effortlessly. They move
through their task with skill, passion and ecstasy. Some people, when they come
out of this state of being, cannot even really recall what they were doing
while they were doing it. These individuals are operating on such a higher
level of emotional intelligence that what they are doing seems to, well…flow. A
lot of artists, musicians and highly skilled intellectuals can describe this
experience as an almost “out-of-body” experience. But we have all experienced
this on some level. I am sure you can think of a time when you did something
and looked back on it and was really impressed with your performance, when you
really couldn’t explain how you did it so well. We have all experienced times
where we were in “the zone.”
What I would like to propose here is the possibility
that we could operate within this prime state of being with our relationship
with God. Can we possibly reach the point with our relationship with Him that
our mind, body and soul are operating at such a level that to other’s it seems
effortless? Could we possibly reach a point in our relationship with God where
we are completely balanced between our worries, anxieties and apathy? I mean
really consider this. This is a real state of being. Science knows enough about
this brain state to know that the emotional mind seems to have come into complete
compliance with the intellectual mind…meaning these two different parts of our
brain are working together in complete harmony.
There are ways that we can get ourselves into flow.
One way is have a fierce focus that is also calm. This of course is very
difficult to accomplish. You have to be able to put everything aside, calm yourself and
bring all of your attention into that one particular task. Imagine operating at
such a peak that you are both calmly and
fiercely focused on God.
Another way to enter flow is to find your optimal
level of anxiety. In order to enter flow one must be at a certain level of
anxiety. One must not be too anxious because that would cause them to lose
their focus. But one must also be anxious enough to be motivated to accomplish the
task at hand. That is the perfect level of “I care too much” and “I don’t care
at all.” Imagine being there with God, where you have that perfect mind set.
Flow can be entered into more easily when you have
spent a lot of time learning about the task you are about to attempt. Musicians
who practice a lot experience this state of being more frequently during
performances than those who practice less. Imagine spending so much time in
prayer, studying the Word and spending time in His presence that you can enter
into flow with Him constantly.
Another thing about flow that you need to know is that
if you are passionate about the task at hand, you can enter into flow more readily. Artists
who paint for the pure passion of it, experience flow more often than those who
approach it with ideas of fame and fortune. So think about how passionate you
are about God. Think about your intentions behind your actions. If you don’t
have passion about your relationship with Him and Godly, humble intentions, then
the possibility and frequency of flow decreases.
Let me be transparent here. If this can be achieved in
my relationship with God I most certainly want to be there. I cannot imagine
being so focused on God that it is almost effortless. That I am so filled with
the task at hand that I lose focus on nothing else but God; where I am so
zeroed in on Him that I am operating at my peak with Him constantly.
I know that I have been there at times though. There
have been moments where I have approached a situation exactly as He wanted me
to and I was astounded with myself. There have been times where I was so caught
up in His presence that everything else went away and I was just in this state
of being where everything was as it should be. But I do not know if it is possible
to operate at this level all the time. I mean I know in heaven one day we will be
constantly in flow with God, but what if we could reach that point in our lives
and operate in that, on a constant level now? I cannot even begin to imagine
the things that could be accomplished in His name. To be constantly in flow
with God would be…amazing!
I will repeat myself here: I do not know for myself whether or not this state of
being can be obtained in my relationship with God constantly while here on this
earth. But one thing is for certain, I am most definitely going to try. Are you with me?
Reference: Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman
Reference: Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman
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